I am currently reading a fantastic book. The 10 Habits of Happy Mothers by Meg Meeker. I got this book back in February when I was in a pretty low place. (Remember this? And this?) I have recently pulled it back off my bookshelf, and am finding it inspiring. I feel the joy seeping back into me.
Being a mom is exhausting.
And you are often both under appreciated and overworked.
Not a good combination.
And you are often both under appreciated and overworked.
Not a good combination.
The book walks you through ten steps to becoming a better, happier, mommy. The steps (because I read them before I bought the book, too, so I could make sure I bought the premise) are:
- Understand Your Value as a Mother
- Maintain Key Relationships
- Value and Practice Faith
- Say No to Competition
- Create a Healthier Relationship with Money
- Make Time for Solitude
- Give and Get Love in Healthy Ways
- Find Ways to Live Simply
- Let Go of Fear
- Hope Is a Decision- So Make It!
I just finished chapter 8 today and will be doing a post for each new habit, the advice given in that chapter of the book, and how I plan to apply said advice to my own life. I am clinging to this book, praying I can follow her advice and find myself enjoying parenting again. Because a few weeks ago, I was ready to throw in the towel. I was ready for someone to rescue me. This is the hardest job I have ever had. And having my heart so involved makes it that much harder.
Well, I'm off to read another chapter & hope to start my "10 Habits" Series tomorrow.
Good night.
Shelly, I love that you are continually seeking information about how to be a better mom. You are an awesome mom and are doing a great job with your boys, but still you want to do better. Reminder me of this quote:
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― Maya Angelou
I'm so glad you wrote about this book! I heard about it when it first came out and then forgot about it. I'm definitely feeling overworked and under-appreciated so this was perfect timing. I just ordered it and can't wait for it to arrive!
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