6.24.2017

Carly at 17 months





Little sister is 17 months today, (where does the time go?!?) and I'm going to share a little about what she's up to these days. 

She loves our cats and meows whenever she sees them, or if we say their names, Ramona or George.  George tolerates her petting him and laying her head on his belly, but Ramona does not. We're hoping with time she'll get more tolerant.



Logan & Jack's friends really love her!

Carly is adored by everyone.
I love her, Josh loves her, the boys love her... and even their sweet little third grade friends love her. It's the sweetest thing ever. When we walk the boys to school, Carly passes out her goldfish snack to all their friends and they gather around like she's a celebrity, fighting over who she likes best. 

She plays a new game where when I try to get her to say "Mama", she says (and signs) "Dada" instead. It's hilarious how much it tickles her when I say, "No! Say mama!" and she says "Dada" again. Silly girl.  I'd say she loves us both, though.  Doesn't really have a favorite yet.


She has a ton of nicknames:
Carlos Barlos
Carlos
Baby Girl
Girlfriend
Carly May
Carly Barly
Sister

She loves going to the bank because she knows she will get a sucker if we go there.  Now just pulling in the parking lot elicits excited squeals from her. She's so smart! 

She has her own sippy cups, but she has basically commandeered my water bottle and straw.  If she makes a mess, which she often does, spilling the whole thing, she will run and get a hand towel from the kitchen (without being asked) and try to clean it up.

 She does a lot of mimicking behavior, which is so fun to watch.  Here she had found a sponge in the laundry basket in the living room and was pretending to clean the floor with it.  She also wrote with a pen on the board we have on the back door, after seeing brothers write on it everyday.  

She's learned a lot from playing with her brothers, including many body parts.
She knows:
Hair
Nose
Tongue
Eyes
Ears
Feet
Belly 
Teeth





She loves to be outside most of all and loves to play with balls and rocks.  If we're in the front yard, she makes a beeline for the corner bed full of rocks.  If we're in the backyard, she climbs up the slide or the monkey bars ladder.  She's completely fearless and exhausting!

 My mom felt bad that the boys got new bikes (for their birthdays) from her, and Carly didn't get anything, so she sent this pink Little Tykes car. She adores it. Climbs in and out all day long, and loves when her brothers will push her in circles around the dining room table. 

We're working on getting Carly to feed herself more, and it's awesome.  She can feed herself cereal with a tiny bit of milk, and she loves to feed herself pieces of our dinner on her own.  In fact, one of her new signs this month is "Myself", which she uses when she doesn't want my help forking food into her mouth. 

Signing "please"

signing "more"
 Speaking of signs, here's what she knows:
Bath
Logan
Jack
Wyatt
Mama
Dada
Eat
More
Candy
Cookies
Water
Done
Sleep
Brush
Nurse
Grapes
Toast
Shoes
Outside
Crackers
Book
Drink
Up
Wait
Hat

Spoken Words:
Bubba
Thank you
Wyatt
Water
More
Mama
Dada
Logan
Meow
Bark
"Woof"
Uh oh
Ball
Whee
Papa
Wake up




I am still nursing Carly.  This was around the age I weaned Wyatt, but I am still enjoying it, so I have no plans to quit any time soon.  She usually nurses to sleep for both naps (she still naps twice a day, and it's killing me. I am so ready for her to go down to one nap!) and at bedtime.  She also nurses any time she wakes up in the night, and sometimes upon waking in the morning or after naps.  I'm basically at her disposal.

She loves to hold her taggies while we nurse, rubbing the ribbons as she falls asleep.  We usually nurse in her room, in the rocking chair I have in there, but sometimes we nurse in my bed or on the couch. It just depends.  

She sleeps from 7am to 6am, usually only waking once or twice during that time.  I feel like her sleep has gotten much more consistent as of late, and it's really nice to wake up in the morning feeling rested.  Her first nap is usually 9-11:30 and her afternoon nap is 1-3.  This is harder now that it's summer and all three big brothers are home. That's why I'm hoping she transitions to one nap soon.  Josh and I have a plan to slowly make that morning nap time later and later, until she's going down around noon.  I think in a few weeks we'll have it down. 


She is my sweet snuggly girl, always coming over to give me hugs, snuggles or kisses, even as she plays.  She blows Josh kisses goodbye when he goes to work and when he kisses her goodnight at bedtime.  She adores Wyatt (I think he's her favorite) and loves to giggle when he's being silly.   

She loves being read to, and is always over at her little bookshelf, carefully choosing a book.

 She has thrown her first few tantrums, after being told no, and while hilarious, it's also sad cause I'm not ready for her to be at this stage of knowing what she wants just yet. 

She had her first set of pig tails this month (!!!) and I was tickled all over again that I have a daughter.

  As sad as I am that her newborn/baby phase has passed, I am looking forward to seeing who she grows into being.  She's so funny, full of life, and sweet.  It's going to be a joy to raise her.

I love you,
baby girl.

Happy 17 Months!!!

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6.23.2017

Around Here: Week 25

















Throwing... a successful birthday bash for our three June boys last weekend.  They each invited five friends, plus three of their cousins, so we had a house full of happy kids!  We kept it simple with three stations- a drawing/art station; an outside (mostly trampoline jumping!) station; and a Lego building station.  They all enjoyed the party and I loved seeing them celebrate with their friends from school.  It also made me happy to be hosting their first birthday party at our first home.

Enjoying... long, slow mornings in our pajamas.  Hooray for summer!  We roll out of bed, eat some breakfast, I drink some coffee and the kids do their daily journals + school work.  It's just the best!

Working... on a little schoolwork (less than an hour per day) to keep the kids' skills up over summer.  The twins typically do a 4th grade prep page; a math page; a reading page and a daily journal entry (picture + sentences).  In the evenings while I'm laying Carly and Wyatt down, they go over multiplication and division with Josh; and throughout the day all three boys are expected to get in (at least) 20 minutes of silent reading and read aloud one book to a parent or sibling.  Wyatt does a reading & math page, plus reads me sight word flashcards.  All in all, their attitudes about this have been pretty good and I've been impressed with what I'm seeing! I joke that it's too bad their dad's a teacher, because he's seen the amount of academic progress that can be lost over summer, so they'll be doing "summer school" all their lives!

Hosting... "brother sleepovers" as we let the kids sleep in the laundry room and each other's beds this first week of summer.  Wyatt was thrilled to sleep in his brothers' room because it meant he got to finally sleep with the kitties.

Scaling back... my reading now that the kids are home for summer.  I am still slowly working through The Identicals by Elin Hildebrand (and loving it!), and I finished Everything, Everything.  I love reading so many books, but it's also kind of nice taking my time.  They're both currently on sale**!

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Getting... lots checked off our to do list this week so we can really settle into being present for the summer as it unfolds.  We grocery shopped, saw the orthodontist, picked up Rx's, and ran to the bank.  Next week there's nothing on the calendar until the weekend.  Wahoo!

Eating... burgers & french fries outside!  The boys and I get so excited to eat outside, and Carly enjoys the bumpy arrival from the dining room to the picnic table in her high chair.

Gardening... with a dragonfly.  It's hard to see in the picture I posted here, but there was a dragonfly working with me as I weeded our little raised garden this week.  I got the bed looking really good and I can't wait until it starts producing!  We have watermelon, pumpkin, peas, green beans, zucchini, corn, and tomatoes!

Spending... a lot of time at the water park this week.  We got season passes and I'm so grateful.  All four kids enjoy their time there, and I find parenting there is way easier than at home because they're so happy in the water!  (Plus they fall asleep at bedtime SO EASILY! Win-win!)

Loving... Carly's little tiny swimsuits.  I think she has five (!!!) and they're all so adorable!  (I bought one, my mom bought two, and I had two others given as hand-me-downs.)

Learning... to love my body in a swimsuit.  Something about having a daughter has me suddenly looking at my body in a totally different light.  Whereas before I was really harsh about the extra pounds, the lumps or bumps, now I find that I want to love my body.  It has given me four beautiful children.  It runs on little sleep and even less nutrition.  It keeps up with those crazy kids, and does anything I ask of it.  I am hoping this journey of self acceptance leads to treating my body better (eating more nutritionally & exercising), and that it will set the example I want for Carly as she grows into a woman.

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"We must love the people
we have become.
Because no matter where
we look, or how hard we
try to see, 
we will never find the
people, that we once 
used to be."
-Ariana