1.20.2021

around here week 2 2021

 {January 3-9th}









{Carly with her cousins Liesel & Alvin}











Cleaning... house for back to school.  I find I am a much more patient homeschool mom if I don't feel like my house is in complete chaos and I'm not drowning in mess. This discovery has helped with my mood immensely. 

Hearing... that Josh's students should be headed back into the classroom soon! He is excited to have kids in person after ten months of remote teaching. 

Understanding... 7th grade math.  (Yes! You read that right!) I am doing algebra and ratios with the twins right now, and I actually understand it, which is more than I can say for my own seventh grade math experience. 

Choosing... books for book club to read.  Each person brings two books to our zoom, and then we get to vote on them. We ended up choosing:
I love our book picking meetings because I add so many good reads to my "To Read" list.  I am really excited about all of these picks. 

Running... errands to pick up glasses, send mail at the post office and drop off paperwork for our mortgage. The kids always complain when we have to run errands after picking up school lunches (we get free lunches everyday from the school. I just have to pick them up!) and this time I finally told them that running errands with four kids is not my idea of a dream either, but here we are. I used to run errands when they were at school... but that's not an option anymore, so we have to do what we have to do.

Setting... up our refi paperwork to get locked in at a lower percentage rate for our house. Josh and I are thrilled to have a lower rate, and a (little bit) lower mortgage. 

Watching... Ava for date night & the show Cosmos with the boys for school.  Ava was a good one, it kept our interest for sure. And Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey was blowing Wyatt and my mind! Highly recommend. I'm pretty sure it was on Disney.

Counting... calories to keep track of what I am consuming, per my counselor's advice. She said losing weight is simply math.  Calories in to calories out.

Losing... four pounds this week! Down to 219lbs! Woot woot!

Keeping... a promise to myself and working out Monday, Wednesday & Friday this week. My goal is to keep this promise for all of 2021.  Just three times a week, simple walking workouts with Leslie Sansone (love her!) but that make my heart pound and make me feel stronger. (Honest moment? The workouts were HARD  this week. I am out.of.shape. But I am hopeful that will change with time.)

Enjoying... movie night with the boys and watching Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children after we finished the book earlier this week. The movie was a bit (!) darker than I had imagined, but luckily Josh and Carly were up in our bedroom watching Moana, so she didn't get scared. I did like the movie, but I don't know if it's one I would watch again.

Relaxing... Saturday with just a handful of chores and then lots of reading and Grey's Anatomy.  I am in season 9 currently, and really enjoying it as an escape.

Reading... The Simple Wild (again) and feeling so grateful that I bought a copy of it.  It's a really cute love story that takes place in rural Alaska.  So much of it is reminiscent of our time in the village of Marshall.  I am constantly underlining parts that remind me of there. 

"Life up here may be simple but it's not easy, and it's not for everyone.  Water runs out; pipes freeze; engines won't start; it's dark for eighteen, nineteen hours a day, for months. Even longer in the far north. Up here it's about having enough food to eat, and enough heat to stay alive through the winter. It's about survival, and enjoying the company of the people that surround us. It's not about whose house is the biggest, or who has the nicest clothes, or the most money.  We support each other because we're all in this together."

Amazed... that Carly can diamond dot. We got into diamond dotting probably two years ago, and the boys and I would listen to audio books while working on Wyatt's wolf poster together. Carly has been asking for her own, so I ordered some tiny ones that are stickers when you're finished.  Butterflies, bugs and owls.  I wasn't sure how well she'd do, but I thought we'd give it a try.  It was awesome! Kept her busy the entire duration of the boys' school work one day this week. 

Laughing... when Carly played Fortnite with the twins this week.  She was so cute with the headset on, and the boys were so sweet helping her get a win. Jack says "she's a sweat." (He says that means she is super good. Hah!)

Also laughing... at Molly eating Grady's dog food with him.  He is so patient with that cat, I can hardly believe it. In the time it takes him to eat the entire bowl full of food, she probably eats three kibbles. Hah!

Ordering... Madame Vice President shirts for Carly and I from Free To Be Kids. I can't wait to get them! 

Feeling... touched when Samuel (Josh's brother) made a Paw Patrol light switch for Carly's bedroom.  He printed it with his 3D printer, with pink and white filament, and it's adorable.  

Playing... outside with the kids despite the misty rain.  We are ALL over the wet weather we've had lately. I am ready for dry days! I love playing out during this time of year, though, because we live under what must be a bird highway.  So many geese heading south.  It's amazing to watch.

Enduring... an emotional week, but with a smile on my face.  Life is crazy, but all I control is this family.  My goal is to simply raise them to be better.  

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1.04.2021

around here week 1 2021

 {December 27-January 2nd}































Reading... Upright Women Wanted on audio (it was okay, but The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek was much better!) and finishing Winter Sisters.  Winter Sisters was the second of the Mary Sutter novels, and was so engrossing.  I loved it. I wrapped up my December reading with six books, and 105 books read in 2020. I am so happy to have surpassed my goal. 

Attending... book club via zoom and feeling so grateful for those friends.  All throughout quarantine we have continued meeting virtually, and their support and understanding (they are all moms as well, trying to survive these crazy times) has been priceless. 

Undecorating... our house and rearranging things.  Recently we had the "game room" (table with two screens + the xbox & PS4) set up in Wyatt's room; but I feel like he's been needing some space of his own, so we moved the "game room" downstairs into the living room and we are all thrilled with the change.  Something about being home together so much in 2020 had us constantly rethinking how we use the space in our home, and I'm so happy to try new things. 

Hosting... my little niece Romy for a playdate on Monday and while I was nervous (she just turned three, and sister LOVES her mama!) it went great! She was good on the drive to my house, and she had so much fun playing with all Carly's toys and eating Otter Pop's (cause Aunt Shelly cannot tell her no- hah!).  It was especially fun to see her with our animals. She adores Grady & Molly, and they were so good to her. 

Taking... Grady to the vet for a booster shot, and finding out (finally!) his weight. Josh and I both guessed he was in the 80's... but he actually weighs 113 pounds! Big boy!!

Enjoying... a glorious snow day on Wednesday.  Big, fat, wet flakes came down all day and it was beautiful.  Josh had seen the weather coming and had gotten gas for the snow blower and some extra groceries the night before. I was so thankful when we woke up to a winter wonderland the next day! 

Soaking... in the last few days of Christmas break.  This has been a much needed respite from school for our family, and sleeping in, lounging around and laughing together has been so lovely.  

Ecstatic... that my sweet friend Tabitha, who is expecting #6, is having a baby girl! She currently has three boys & two girls, but the last two were boys, so she's ready for some more PINK. I am soo excited. (I even bought her a "Little Sister" onesie before we knew for sure. I was so hopeful!)

Seeing... my counselor again (via Doctor on Demand online) and feeling so blessed to have affordable mental health care, and to have gotten lucky with such a great therapist. Dr. H is an amazing listener and so supportive of my role as a stay at home mom.  She and I have a lot of things we want to work on together and this week we dove in.  

Setting goals... I have with my counselor.  She's going to help keep me accountable to- working out 3x a week; not doing anything else while eating (ie reading, watching TV); introducing healthier snacks to the family; and keeping my calories between 1500 & 1700 each day.  My weight has ballooned up (thanks COVID & quarantine) to 222 pounds. I am really uncomfortable and I want to get it under control.  Small changes are the way, she says, so I'm starting small with a few workouts each week, better snacks, and not reading while I eat. I've already done this a few times, and I have been surprised how much less I eat when I am paying 100% attention to my meal. The hardest part will likely be the calorie restriction... but I am excited to eat more fruits & vegetables, and to see some pounds fall off!

Laughing... as Carly told me about grandma pulling her on her sled behind the four wheeler.  "I went SO fast!" she said excitedly.  Josh took her and the boys out to the land while I had my counseling appointment, and they got to sled. They are so lucky to have access to the land thanks to their grandparents- so many amazing memories are made there. 

Celebrating... New Year's with chinese food takeout (our tradition) and going to bed at 10:30pm.  Hah! We are such old people. 

Sleeping over... at my mom's with Carly.  We had so much fun on Friday & Saturday, shopping and watching movies.  I went to Hobby Lobby for the first time and bought a ton of shelves & decorating stuff for our house. I am so excited to hang everything up and add some functionality (a magazine rack in the bathroom, a new lamp in the family room, another (blue!) book cart for downstairs)
We also watched Ammonite (the new Kate Winslet movie) which made me miss the beach and love rocks even more; as well as Blackbird, which was devastating. Susan Sarandon is just incredible as the mom with ALS choosing to end her life.