11.13.2021

Around Here: Week 44 2021

 {October 24-30th}















Carly's teacher and the other kindergarten teachers dressed up as Pop Its. So cute!








Doing... chores, per usual on Sunday. Each kiddo has a list of chores that rotates each week. It's great because it teaches them how to clean, and lightens my load. (I plan to do a post on how we do chores soon!)  Wyatt had a runny nose last week, so emptying his garbage meant corralling a thousand kleenex into a bag to take out to the trash. It was funny to watch. 
Even Carly had a "chore list" that she wrote herself Sunday morning. It was the first thing she's ever written, sounding it out, all on her own.  It said, "Make bed" and "Do Barbie House". I was so proud of her!

Visiting... our family member who suffered two weeks ago, and feeling very optimistic, uplifted and hopeful for a full recovery. 
We also visited the pumpkin patch this week, but that will be a post all its own. It was so fun!

Recieving... Carly's school pictures and loving them so much!! Gosh she's so cute. 

Taking... Wyatt to his yearly check up and getting both his and Carly's flu shots.  They both did great. We spent a lot of time waiting, and I got maybe a hundred pages read of Apples Never Fall.  It is so good!

Shocked... that Carly made her own sandwich one morning to go in her lunch.  Her growing up before my eyes never ceases to amaze me.

Sending... Josh to Wenatchee to watch Jack's game after school while I stayed home with Wyatt (who is still a bit sick) and Carly, who was so tired. Jack forgot his backpack and we spent the whole next morning before school trying to track it down. Thankfully Mrs. Brown, his assitant coach, saw it and grabbed it for him, so it wasn't left on the bus or out of town. Small blessings!!

Journaling... about the last few weeks while sitting in parent pick up. I tend to arrive about a half hour early, and spend that time either reading or writing outside the school. It's a nice way to prepare for the onslaught of four children post-school day. 

Running... errands with all four kids and questioning my sanity while doing so. We ran to Petco (to get cat toys because Molly keeps eating our clothes!! and to get George a new, bigger collar) and the shoe store (to get Jack & Logan Vans for skateboarding) and Walmart, to get Halloween candy among other things. The kids complained like they thought it was maybe my favorite thing to shop with them. It most certainly is not! But it's good for them to do things they don't like to do. 

Signing... Jack up for the school trip to Rome, Athens and the Greek Isles summer of 2023.  He is so excited and I am excited for him. I'm so happy that he's going to have this opportunity. He will be fundraising and working to help earn the money.  In the meantime, the school has the payments divided into monthly amounts that are automatically deducted.  So it's less overwhelming in cost. 

Dressing... Wyatt & Carly up on Friday for costumes, which are allowed at school.  I love that they get to dress up, and there was even a parade. Wyatt wore his Lego man costume, and Carly was Cinderella.  Wyatt said as he walked through the parade, the kindergartners started shouting, "Lego guy! Lego guy!" and clapping.  Carly told us about it at dinner and said, "It was like he was a hero!" 

Accompanying... Logan and his friend Easton to the skate park one town over.  While we were there, Carly and I played at the park, and when they boys were done skating the bowl, we grabbed some pizza and ice cream at Walmart and picked up Jack and Channing from their house and all enjoyed pizza and a movie together. I felt like a really fun mom and the boys were grateful. 

Painting... my nails, and enjoying them so much. It's a pretty blue/grey color from my friend Jessica. 

Seeing... Josh off to the land and our three boys to Wenatchee for the day on Saturday.  Josh is pouring a concrete path with his brother for his parents, and the twins were in Wenatchee so they could celebrate their cousin Ferris' birthday.  They saw a movie, played at my mom's house and had cake and ice cream. Meanwhile at home, Carly and I were hanging out, and thrilled when Josh came home from the land (where his parents live) sooner than we anticipated. 

Reading... Apples Never Fall, Once There Were Wolves and listening to September on audio. I joined a Read-a-thon hosted by @readwithkat and got so much reading done this weekend because of it. I shared that I was reading Once There Were Wolves on Sunday on IG, and the author, Charlotte McConaghy, liked my tagging her!! I was so geeked out!  100%. 
 I am now reading The One and Only Bob (the sequel to The One and Only Ivan) written from the dog's perspective to the boys and they often fall asleep downstairs as I read to them.  It's a very cozy way to end our day, and I love it. 

Attending... my Mine To Tell meeting and deciding to let go for a little while of my big project, and instead warm up to writing by catching up my blog. It feels good to have a smaller project to start on and I will be happy to have our family memories recorded. 

Looking... back at old Halloween pictures and feeling nostalgic for little kids and tiny costumes. 

Ordering... our Christmas cards on Shutterfly and feeling so excited for them to get here! Every year I look forward to doing our Christmas cards and writing our Christmas letter. It is the first step in our holiday season. 

Losing it... one evening when thinking of the twins dating and falling in love. (Josh was only three years older than they are when he and I met.) I remember thinking that Josh's mom was so strict but now I understand!! Josh was her baby!! Who was I to swoop in and love him and steal all his attention?!? Hah! Truly though, I can't imagine how I will navigate that. I guess we'll take it one day at a time. And I'll work really hard to stay close to them. My boys. My babies. 

Loving... this quote that my friend Theresa shared with me,
saying she thought of me when she saw it:

"You know, they say the cracks are where the light gets in,
but really I think the cracks are where the light gets out.
Yeah, the beauty you don't realise you have.
The strength inside you never get to see.
The bravery you demonstrate by showing up everyday, by trying, by not giving up...
it's in your cracks that we see your light.
And you're bright, darling.
In your deepest, darkest days, you're just so bright."

-S.C. Lourie

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11.11.2021

Around Here: Week 43 2021

 {October 17-23rd}














































And now, 
for your viewing pleasure, 
some pictures of baby Wyatt:






Working... in the yard to cut down my dahlias (I will dig up the tubers for storing and re-planting them next summer at the start of November).  I also weeded the flowerbed with the help of the kids, while Josh and Jack put the winter cover on our pool.  It feels good to have the yard ready for winter.  Our goal is always to have it prepped before Halloween.  
While we were weeding, Carly found a ladybug that she cared for, and it brought her such joy. She is so fun. 

Learning... more about our extended family member's illness (that I mentioned last week) as we talked with doctors.  The last seven days has made me so grateful for family and friends and for my extreme nerdiness as my notetaking during our meeting with the doctor proved very helpful. There may be a long road ahead, but I am feeling optimistic. My emotions are all over the place, but mostly I am currently in a place of gratitude. 

Stress shopping... through my friend Brittany's Live sale of her jewelry. I was able to get so many pair of earrings for a great deal, and they are all gorgeous! Go check out her page. 

Decorating... Halloween cupcakes with Wyatt & Carly, thanks to Aunt Julie. She dropped off the cutest cupcake set and we made cats and bats that were adorable and delicious. 

Cracking up... as Carly says, videoing me building a magnetic tower, that she was "live streaming" the event. Where does she get this stuff?!

Finding... joy in small moments this week.  Building towers with Carly; enjoying morning snuggles with her; pink sunsets; wavy mermaid hair the morning after braids; the colors on the fall trees; my new living room rug (and how much Grady loves it!); watching as leaves fall gently to the ground; opening fun mail from both my cousin Alix and my friend Brittany; looking back on baby pictures of Carly and little Wyatt; my "Breathe" mug, a gift from a friend years ago after Wyatt was hospitalized; peaceful drives through the autumn trees, so breathtaking and short-lived; Logan & Jack twinning on accident one day; brothers gaming; toys on the desk in my room; our family eating dinner together; work continuing to happen on our house; putting the elephant sticker Jack bought me on my water bottle (he saw it and thought of me, warmed my heart); smiling as I opened the cupboard to see Josh had found our favorite blue Molly McButter after weeks of searching for it; a surprise phone call from my high school bestie; and quiet moments when the kids are at school and the cats are asleep, a candle burning on the island, and that feeling of gratitude sweeps over me for this beautiful life. 

Missing... my writing class this week as Wyatt was home sick.  He needed me, and class will always be there next week.  It felt good to snuggle with him in his bed as he watched his tablet with George and I read my book.  When his asthma is acting up, I like to be near.  I keep track of his coughing and the number of breaths per minute he is breathing. 

Grateful... for the steroids, albuterol, nebulizer and experience I have that helps me get Wyatt through these hard times.  Unfortunately, because of his asthma we had to cancel our pumpkin patch plans with cousins, but getting him well was the main focus.  I spent some time looking back on the blog and gosh Wyatt was an adorable baby and I am so lucky to get to take care of him. Can you even?!?

Visiting... a small book store & cafe in a nearby town for the first time and feeling like I was home.  We don't have a book store in town, and I have missed it so much.  My friend Becky came with and we had the best lunch and the best time browsing.  I bought two books.  They Both Die At The End and Once There Were Wolves. I am so excited to read them.

Attending... Jack's football game with Josh, our other kiddos and my parents.  My mom came with the cutest new hats for Carly and me, and I was glad I had them because it was cold! Carly was dancing all around in the bleachers and fell, and oh the collective gasp- all those pounding, worried hearts.  Thankfully she was fine except for a bonk on the knee.  I told her next time she's bringing a helmet. Hah!
While watching the game at one point I looked over and saw Josh holding Carly on his lap and thought, "He is so hot." I'm so lucky he's mine.

Listening... to a presentation about a school trip to Athens & Rome summer of 2023 that Jack is interested in.  After watching the presentation, I'm interested too. Hah! We are discussing whether he thinks he can raise the funds to afford it.  Exciting!!

Thankful... everyday for Carly's amazing teacher.  Carly graduated ABC bootcamp this week and I am just so blown away with how much she has learned. Her upper and lower case letters, sounds, sound blends and even some sight words.  She comes home from school everyday and plays school with her dolls or practices writing her letters with me or her dad on her whiteboard.  I'm so proud of her.

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