of the twins who are working for my bestie Shana, being the "muscle" as she sorts through her house and garage. I am so glad they can be helpful to her, and they are so glad to be earning some cash money!! I hope this instills in them a good work ethic and a desire to work hard. Seeing what it can get you is very inspiring!
Enduring... game after game of "Floor is Lava". Carly will often call out, "Three... two... one... FLOOR IS LAVA!" and then fling herself up onto the couch or a chair. I am also constantly finding my couch pillows on the floor (as seen above) used as "stepping stones" to survive the lava floor that is constantly erupting randomly. #momlife
Buying... When Calls the Heart season 7 on accident after hearing from my brother's girlfriend how good it was and then deciding if I have season 7, I need season 6, too. (Seasons 1-5 are on Netflix!) I plan on re-watching all of them once the boys start school, one episode or two each day during our lunch break, as something to look forward to. I love how wholesome the show is, and often the kids end up watching it with me.
Experiencing... anxiety when Josh went back to work. Just knowing that after six months of him home I was going to be on my own with the kids, I was quite overwhelmed. I know that eventually we will get in a good routine and the anxiety will quell, but for the time being, it sucks.
Blogging... our weekly
Around Here posts to get caught up and feeling good that I'm not too far behind.
Reading... Mindset,
The Power of Vulnerability and
Men, Women and Worthiness, all on audio this week. Mindset had an interesting basis, but the book was a bit repetitive. (Basic idea- have a flexible, not fixed, mindset.) The Power of Vulnerability was mind blowing. I think every human on earth should have to listen to it. And Men, Women, and Worthiness was an interesting listen, but not as amazing as The Power of Vulnerability. It's great, cause it's only like two hours, too.
Catching... up on projects before school starts in two weeks. It should start September 14th. The numbers in our area are near 500 per 100,000 and it's recommended they be at 75 per 100,000 in order for schools to open. So I am quite curious how long they will be able to meet in person. I also wonder if I'll choose to send my kids in person at all this year. (We have a chance to reassess after Christmas break if we'd like to do the hybrid model or send them full time instead of full time distance learning.)
Cleaning... the house and organizing, too, in an effort to get life together and feel like I'm controlling something. We are deep cleaning and sorting and getting things together to drop at Goodwill. It feels good to be crossing things off the list, and to have the boys helping while they are still on vacation.
Having... hard conversations with Josh about work, school and parenting. We have both been reading Brene Brown audio books and she is impacting us in the best ways. She calls these conversations "rumbling", and it's quite accurate. You gotta really get to the meat of it, but after you do, it's so, so good.
Adding... "thankful" to our "best and worst" conversations at the dinner table. We really want to incorporate gratitude in our daily lives and make sure our kids are as well, so this is our solution to that. Every night we each share the best and worst of our day, and now we are also sharing the thing we were most grateful for. It's been really sweet to hear what each person is grateful for, and how no one wants to be left out of the conversation or have their turn skipped over.
Facetiming.... with Wyatt's friend which made him so happy. They spent nearly the whole time showing each other Matchbox cars, and it certainly wasn't the same as actually playing, but it was something.
Wanting... to share Carly's
mama cat and kittens with you. I ordered this for her maybe a month ago? And I just love it so much. She loves everything tiny, so I was searching for tiny cats and
found it. The kittens magnetize to the mama's nipples so they look like they're really nursing, and they are all so soft and sweet. Carly adores them and loves to play with their little magnetic noses.
Inviting... Alvin to come swim with us one sunny afternoon. I love how Carly loves him and the boys rough house with him. It makes me smile.
Mastering... front flips in the pool. (Well, the kids, not me! Hah! I used to be able to do flips underwater, but now my brain feels too fuzzy afterward.) And they are working on hand stands and back flips as well. I love watching them try it. They're so persistent.
Loving... when I came downstairs and found Logan brushing Carly's hair after a swim. It was the sweetest. He was amazed at how tough she is and how many tangles her hair had. #bestbrother
Sending... the kids to Grandma Carol's for the last time this summer and feeling so grateful we had that respite each week. What a blessing.
Purchasing... bowls from Walmart that bring me ridiculous joy. They are Pioneer Woman stoneware bowls and were on sale (in store only) for $1.55! They match my colorful Fiestaware plates & bowls and are so convenient for snacks for the kids.
"I do not apply the impossible rules to anyone but myself."
"You have your body to thank for every little thing that you have experienced."
I so identified with her when she said that the impossible rules she took from society (for example: be thin, but curvy) she applied only to herself. I am exactly the same way. I have so much grace for my friends. When they screw up parenting or relationships, I am right there to lift them back up, saying, "Everyone makes mistakes. It's okay. Try again." But when I screw up parenting, or say the wrong thing to someone, I am most certainly not giving myself a pass. It's for sure something I need to work on.
A little self compassion would go a long way.
Also, I loved her quote about having your body to thank for EVERYTHING you have experienced. I think I am going to put that one up on the mirror in my bathroom to remind me to be kind to her when I see her and want to point out all her flaws.
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And lastly,
a closing thought that I found very comforting
as I prepare for a school year of unknowns:
"It's dark because you are trying too hard.
Lightly, child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly.
Yes, feel lightly, even though you're feeling deeply.
Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them."
-Aldous Huxley
