Showing posts with label proud mama. Show all posts
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2.21.2020

around here: week 6 2020

{February 2 - February 8}


{pc: Carly}

















Enjoying... a quiet Superbowl Sunday with just our family and Josh's dad.  It was a nice afternoon, where I blogged and Carly & Grady snuggled and the boys played a lot of Legos.

Loving... the feeling of my bed at night. I am trying really hard to make sure I have time to read in my bed every night before going to sleep. It's maybe my favorite part of the day.
Something else I'm grateful for is that Josh makes the bed everyday.  It's a thing we do- I get up and make his lunch and he gets up and makes the bed.  These are chores we do not enjoy doing ourselves, so we do them for each other everyday.

Redoing... our family room after Josh found a fireplace on sale at Home Depot for $150 (thanks for telling us about the sale, Carol!) and it inspired me to transform that space into a room I love.  I found a rug (we've wanted one in there since we moved in) at Walmart for only $79 and those two purchases were all I needed to whip that room into shape.  I sorted through Carly's toys and made our toy and book shelves look so much better/organized, and it's amazing how much better I feel about that room now!

Hosting... book club at our house.  We read Anne of Green Gables this month (my pick!) and it was so fun to discuss with my friends.  Book club brings me such joy and I am so grateful to be a part of it.  And this month, reading about Anne, just reminded me to be grateful to be alive. She has been through so much, yet she continues to find things to be thankful for, and is able to find the beauty in life around her.  I'm trying to learn from her example for sure.

Cherishing... Carly's morning snuggles & her art & the high heels she got from my friend Shana which she now wears all over the house.  It's just so fun to have a daughter.

Learning... Carly has three cavities at the dentist and feeling like a horrible mother because of it.  My boys have never had cavities and I feel awful that Carly does.  We aren't good at being consistent with brushing her teeth, and the girl LOVES sugar, so this was bound to happen, but I was still shocked by it.  They want to give her "sleepy juice" (so she will be kind of out of it, but not completely asleep) and fix them.  Her appointment is next week. From now on, we are committing to brushing twice a day!

Reading... Dear Edward and The House We Grew Up In, both of which were five star reads.  Dear Edward I could not put down.  It's about a boy who is the sole survivor of a terrible plane crash and how he "comes back to life".  The writing is just amazing and so heart wrenching.
I listened to The House We Grew Up In on audio, and it was really good.  I was riveted with every turn the story took.  It's about a family whose mother is a hoarder and how they grow up, suffering loss of different kinds and how that impacts each of them.  So, so absorbing!

Taking... the twins to the orthodontist this week for their check up.  We just love our orthodontist.  He's such a bright spirit and always so fun to chat with.  This time I had Dear Edward with me and when I told him about it, he said he can't read sad books like that.  I laughed and it made me think- I really do love a sad book.  What sad books have you loved? I loved The Light Between Oceans, and Me Before You.

Seeing... Little Women in Wenatchee with my sister when I decided I needed a break from this chaotic, loud life of mine.  Thankfully Josh is a great support whenever I need a minute and said yes, go.  The movie was so good, very inspiring and I always enjoy spending time with my sister. 
The drive was lovely, so peaceful and just what I needed after what's been a crazy week. (It's about an hour drive each way)
Now I want to reread the classic book and see how/if the movie differs. I'll keep you posted.

Playing... with Kamden & Carly when he came over for a playdate on his birthday.  I just love him and his mom so much!  He's the cutest little boy, and I'm so grateful for the friendship he and Carly share.  She isn't always sweet (#lastchildprobs) but with Kamden she is usually very sweet and it gives me hope that she'll grow up to be a decent human being.

Commiserating... with the kids that middle school sucks.  They have seven classes each, no recess, no free time, very little passing time, and tons of homework.  They are severely missing elementary school with it's class parties, specialists (music, PE, etc.) and 3 recesses/day.  But our perspective is that everyone in our family has a job and theirs is school.  So like it or not, there you are.  And our expectation is that you do your BEST at your job everyday. 
But the transition from one classroom all day to seven classes all with different teachers, expectations and curriculum has been brutal.  Here's hoping seventh grade is a little easier.

Enjoying... Date Night watching The Departed with Josh's brother Samuel & his girlfriend Makayla.  Josh made us all homemade pizza (his is the BEST!) and we chowed down while watching a very dark, star studded movie. 

Crazy proud... of the story Jack wrote and his grades.  Because of his good grades (all A's & B's except one C) he got special night with me and Josh.  He stayed up and watched TV with us, then we played Monopoly and he won!  The story was part of an assignment he had to write about a robot that helped humanity.  He chose to write about a medical robot that helped cancer patients.  I was blown away by his writing and the details of our family life he put into his paper. (The pictures of his story above are his rough draft- so excuse any spelling & grammar errors.)

Finding... more toothpaste in the bathroom.  This time in the outlet.
Sigh.
seriously, guys.  Why?!?

Walking... the dog with the kids on Saturday and running movie night for them while Josh had a much needed day away at the land with his brother.  Sometimes we all need a break, am I right?

Challenging... the kids to read chapter books and feeling my heart soar- Wyatt has finished his first and the twins are working on theirs.  I told them if they completed a chapter book (that was not a graphic novel), reading it start to finish, they would be rewarded with a special night with Josh and I.  So they are pumped to try and accomplish the goal, and I am happy for REAL reading to be happening in our house again.  They all seem to enjoy reading, but don't necessarily challenge themselves, which I think is important.



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11.08.2019

Week 45 Around Here {2019}
















Enjoying... a day to ourselves on Saturday when Josh took Logan to the land with him (Wyatt & Jack had slept over at Grandma's Friday night, so they were already there) by taking a walk in the sunshine and watching Pride & Prejudice while Carly played puppies.  I had a migraine to start the day off, so relaxing with her and watching a movie was nice while my medicine kicked in, and then our walk in the brisk fall sunshine was just what the doctor ordered.  We finished off the night with pizza & family movie night, which was also nice and the kids were happy to be home and cozy after a day spent playing outside & four wheeling.
   
Watching... Game of Thrones with Josh every chance we get, including date night (which is on Fridays, after the kids are in bed). We are about to start Season 6 and I am ridiculously invested in the characters.  I love Tyrion, loathe Stannis Baratheon & am so curious what's going to happen with Cersei.
I've also been watching Teen Mom 2 and Unexpected.  I got myself caught up on Thursday when my mother-in-law had Carly.  It was a lovely day to relax and unwind, writing in my journal, lounging on the bed with my kitties, while watching my favorite guilty pleasures.

Grateful... for grandma's who give our kids the much needed love & attention they require when we parents have just about had enough. ;)  Josh's mom had two of the kids this weekend for a sleepover and Carly later in the week; and my mom stopped by on her way out of town (headed back home) and took all four of them for a few hours (bless her!) so I could grocery shop sans children. (And then she paid for our groceries!)  I am just so thankful for moms who understand how hard and exhausting this stage of life is. They aren't judgmental, just there to support us and love our kids and have our backs in whatever ways we need (big & small). It means so much.  Love you two, Nanny & Grandma! Our kids are the luckiest.

Fighting... screens and screen-sneaking bad this week as the darkness has set in from Daylight Savings Time ending.  It seems like the only thing the kids want to do once it's dark out, and I am just not here for it.  What are some things you do in your houses to keep kids entertained during the winter months?  I'd love some suggestions.

Trying... to embrace the coziness of fall's arrival (the darkness, the colder temperatures) and loving the morning daylight we get now that everything's an hour earlier.  I myself love to cozy up with a good book and enjoy the quiet of a dark fall afternoon... my children on the other hand... Not so much. Hopefully things will improve with time.

Yelling... "No guns in the house!" all week as the boys have been playing Nerf Gun Wars since Sunday and I keep finding Nerf bullets everywhere.  I don't want Carly or myself to be shot as innocent bystanders, and they are CRAZY when they play, so the game must be played outside.  But other than that, their playing Nerf guns makes me so, so happy.  I love to hear them running around, chasing each other, making attack plans and bases, and using up every minute of sunlight after school to play outside.  If only the sunlight would last a little longer!!

Reading... Us Against You by Fredrik Backman (the sequel to Beartown) on audio while simultaneously trying to finish up O Pioneers by Willa Cather and start on this month's book club read- Murder at the Brightwell by Ashley Weaver.  I was in a bit of a reading slump at the beginning of this week, but things have picked up and I am back at it again, thankfully, because I have a big goal of TEN BOOKS for November! (fingers crossed!)

Attending... the boys' wrestling practice when it was "Parents Night" and getting to watch all three of them wrestle for the first time. It was exhilarating! I felt so proud of them, for how far they have come (they've never wrestled before this year) and how much they have learned.  The workout they get at practice is intense, and I am so proud of them for not giving up and for knowing their bodies are capable.

Loving... Carly's antique dress from my brother's girlfriend Bri.  She saw it and bought it for Carly for no reason other than she thought it would look darling on her.  And it does.  I love it so much.  It reminds me of Carly's german heritage, and of her namesakes- she is named both for Josh's parents (Carol & Carl), and for our ancestors on my paternal grandparent's side, many of whom were named Karl and came to America from Germany.

Feeling... so proud of the twins whose first quarter report cards came home this week and brought me nearly to tears.  Almost every teacher wrote that they were "a pleasure to have in class" or "polite, positive, and respectful"This, to me, is everything.  As a mom, my goal is to raise kids who are good human beings.  Kind human beings.  The kind of people that other people want to be around.  Rarely do we get feedback that tells us we are doing something right.  These report cards were that feedback for me, and it meant the world to me.

Frustrated... that alongside those feelings of pride we are dealing with so much sibling fighting.  One of the boys literally broke a yard rake on his brother last weekend.  Sigh.  And the bickering.  I tell you, it's enough to drive a person mad.
So the boys are picking up extra chores and consequences like they're going out of style, and they have also picked up dinner dish duty as a consequence for poor grades in one class.  (It's super fascinating to me that both twins are struggling in the same subject, even though they are in different classes with different teachers at different times, it's the same curriculum.  Their brains really do work (and struggle) the same ways.)  When their grade in that class improves, mom will be back on dinner dish duty.

Meeting... with one of the twins' teachers this week to discuss their struggles in class and planning to meet with the others' next week during parent/teacher conferences to make sure we get on track for second quarter.  This meant I had to get all four kids and myself out the door by 7:20am for the meeting and let me tell you, it was no small feat. ha!  But we have a good idea of what our kiddo needs to be successful now and I think it will be smooth(er) sailing from here.

Hugging... my kids as often as possible after reading a few articles circulating about how important it is. I thought I was affectionate before, but now that I am consciously trying to hug them more often, I can see how many opportunities I let pass me by before.  This article sums up what I read about hugs & all their benefits.  It's funny, but I am surprised (duh!) at how much closer I feel to all of them from all this physical contact.  I guess I thought if we were close, I'd hug them more, but the opposite is also true.  The more I hug them, the more I feel like we're connected emotionally.  It's been pretty cool. 

Taking... Wyatt to his school STEM (Science/Technology/Engineering/Math) night on Thursday.  He was right in his element making sling shots, stacking apples, cups & blocks, making models and solving different puzzles.  I just love watching how his brain works, and am forever fascinated by how different he is from his mother. (hah!)

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