Showing posts with label orthodontist. Show all posts
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2.21.2020

around here: week 6 2020

{February 2 - February 8}


{pc: Carly}

















Enjoying... a quiet Superbowl Sunday with just our family and Josh's dad.  It was a nice afternoon, where I blogged and Carly & Grady snuggled and the boys played a lot of Legos.

Loving... the feeling of my bed at night. I am trying really hard to make sure I have time to read in my bed every night before going to sleep. It's maybe my favorite part of the day.
Something else I'm grateful for is that Josh makes the bed everyday.  It's a thing we do- I get up and make his lunch and he gets up and makes the bed.  These are chores we do not enjoy doing ourselves, so we do them for each other everyday.

Redoing... our family room after Josh found a fireplace on sale at Home Depot for $150 (thanks for telling us about the sale, Carol!) and it inspired me to transform that space into a room I love.  I found a rug (we've wanted one in there since we moved in) at Walmart for only $79 and those two purchases were all I needed to whip that room into shape.  I sorted through Carly's toys and made our toy and book shelves look so much better/organized, and it's amazing how much better I feel about that room now!

Hosting... book club at our house.  We read Anne of Green Gables this month (my pick!) and it was so fun to discuss with my friends.  Book club brings me such joy and I am so grateful to be a part of it.  And this month, reading about Anne, just reminded me to be grateful to be alive. She has been through so much, yet she continues to find things to be thankful for, and is able to find the beauty in life around her.  I'm trying to learn from her example for sure.

Cherishing... Carly's morning snuggles & her art & the high heels she got from my friend Shana which she now wears all over the house.  It's just so fun to have a daughter.

Learning... Carly has three cavities at the dentist and feeling like a horrible mother because of it.  My boys have never had cavities and I feel awful that Carly does.  We aren't good at being consistent with brushing her teeth, and the girl LOVES sugar, so this was bound to happen, but I was still shocked by it.  They want to give her "sleepy juice" (so she will be kind of out of it, but not completely asleep) and fix them.  Her appointment is next week. From now on, we are committing to brushing twice a day!

Reading... Dear Edward and The House We Grew Up In, both of which were five star reads.  Dear Edward I could not put down.  It's about a boy who is the sole survivor of a terrible plane crash and how he "comes back to life".  The writing is just amazing and so heart wrenching.
I listened to The House We Grew Up In on audio, and it was really good.  I was riveted with every turn the story took.  It's about a family whose mother is a hoarder and how they grow up, suffering loss of different kinds and how that impacts each of them.  So, so absorbing!

Taking... the twins to the orthodontist this week for their check up.  We just love our orthodontist.  He's such a bright spirit and always so fun to chat with.  This time I had Dear Edward with me and when I told him about it, he said he can't read sad books like that.  I laughed and it made me think- I really do love a sad book.  What sad books have you loved? I loved The Light Between Oceans, and Me Before You.

Seeing... Little Women in Wenatchee with my sister when I decided I needed a break from this chaotic, loud life of mine.  Thankfully Josh is a great support whenever I need a minute and said yes, go.  The movie was so good, very inspiring and I always enjoy spending time with my sister. 
The drive was lovely, so peaceful and just what I needed after what's been a crazy week. (It's about an hour drive each way)
Now I want to reread the classic book and see how/if the movie differs. I'll keep you posted.

Playing... with Kamden & Carly when he came over for a playdate on his birthday.  I just love him and his mom so much!  He's the cutest little boy, and I'm so grateful for the friendship he and Carly share.  She isn't always sweet (#lastchildprobs) but with Kamden she is usually very sweet and it gives me hope that she'll grow up to be a decent human being.

Commiserating... with the kids that middle school sucks.  They have seven classes each, no recess, no free time, very little passing time, and tons of homework.  They are severely missing elementary school with it's class parties, specialists (music, PE, etc.) and 3 recesses/day.  But our perspective is that everyone in our family has a job and theirs is school.  So like it or not, there you are.  And our expectation is that you do your BEST at your job everyday. 
But the transition from one classroom all day to seven classes all with different teachers, expectations and curriculum has been brutal.  Here's hoping seventh grade is a little easier.

Enjoying... Date Night watching The Departed with Josh's brother Samuel & his girlfriend Makayla.  Josh made us all homemade pizza (his is the BEST!) and we chowed down while watching a very dark, star studded movie. 

Crazy proud... of the story Jack wrote and his grades.  Because of his good grades (all A's & B's except one C) he got special night with me and Josh.  He stayed up and watched TV with us, then we played Monopoly and he won!  The story was part of an assignment he had to write about a robot that helped humanity.  He chose to write about a medical robot that helped cancer patients.  I was blown away by his writing and the details of our family life he put into his paper. (The pictures of his story above are his rough draft- so excuse any spelling & grammar errors.)

Finding... more toothpaste in the bathroom.  This time in the outlet.
Sigh.
seriously, guys.  Why?!?

Walking... the dog with the kids on Saturday and running movie night for them while Josh had a much needed day away at the land with his brother.  Sometimes we all need a break, am I right?

Challenging... the kids to read chapter books and feeling my heart soar- Wyatt has finished his first and the twins are working on theirs.  I told them if they completed a chapter book (that was not a graphic novel), reading it start to finish, they would be rewarded with a special night with Josh and I.  So they are pumped to try and accomplish the goal, and I am happy for REAL reading to be happening in our house again.  They all seem to enjoy reading, but don't necessarily challenge themselves, which I think is important.



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9.28.2019

Week 38 Around Here {2019}


















Watching... Sweet Home Sextuplets and Risking It All, which are both really entertaining and I can watch with my kids (unlike The Handmaid's Tale- ha!). The boys really enjoy Risking It All, which is about families who sell everything they own to try their hand at living off the grid. 

Worrying... about Carly as she bonked her front teeth on her baby stroller, knocking them a bit loose and cutting her gums.  I was able to text a picture to her dentist's office and they assured me that she would be okay (and what to look for, just in case), which helped me relax a little bit.  But she did require cold, wet washcloths for most of the afternoon, poor girl.

Loving... our new house more everyday.  As we continue to settle in, unpacking more boxes and doing more decorating, I just love every nook and cranny more.  It's crazy to me how much it already feels like home.

Reading... Searching for Sylvie Lee on audio and The Most Fun We Ever Had.  I am loving The Most Fun We Ever Had.  It reminds me of This Is How It Always Is- every page has a small truth about what life is like with children and husbands and family... I can't get enough.
I also read Wyatt's second grade journal (finally) and loved the page he had written about being lucky.  If anything, we are lucky to have him.  That, I'm sure of.

"Vrooming"... our groceries into the house with Carly's baby stroller.  I asked for her help unloading them from the car and she asked if she could "vroom" them in.  Haha! I said yes, and it was the right answer! Sister brought in so many groceries!!!  #besthelper

Giving up... the Walmart grocery pick up.  I had been using it since late July or early August, but after multiple disappointments, and having to run to the grocery store myself anyway to get things they don't carry at Walmart, I found it just wasn't worth it.
Their produce isn't great, and their substitutions never make any sense (they didn't have sliced black olives, so they gave me green olives.  But wouldn't whole black olives make more sense? -for example).  I'm sad for the time lost to the grocery store, but it's a necessary evil.

Crying... {literally} as I drove past the emptied water park the other day and it hit me that summer is really, truly over.  I am trying to accept that fall is approaching (less than two weeks now), but I'm having a hard time.  Maybe I'll try to make a fall bucket list??? (Any ideas, friends?)

Signing... all three boys up for wrestling, which is exciting!  They've never wrestled before, but we think they'll be great, and the exercise will be really good for them. 

Laughing... at how Carly says, "Oh nothing" when I ask her what she's up to lately.  (Whenever she says that, I come a-running to see what kind of "nothing" she's up to.  Hahah!) And loving how she simply must hug & kiss all her guys goodbye everyday.  First it's Daddy, as he leaves for work; then the twins, as they leave on their bikes out the garage; then it's Wyatt, as he walks to the bus stop.  She hugs each of them, and kisses their bellies, wherever her lips hit 'em, and then runs back to her toys.
Her favorite way to end the morning is to wave goodbye to Wyatt's bus as it drives away.  So a few times a week we try to get out there to wave at it.

Taking... all three boys to the orthodontist for check ups and reprimanding Logan for cutting his wire on his own in the garage with Josh's wire cutters. Sigh. This kid.

Visiting... the vet with Ramona, who, it turns out, has a bladder infection.  We got some medication that she's been really good about taking and I'm praying she gets well quick. 

Buying... Logan a new medical bracelet (from Etsy- super cool and super cheap) after he lost his last one at the pool this summer.  I remember when I ordered his first bracelet that said "Epilepsy", it required a level of acceptance that I hadn't previously come to.  Ordering it this time was no big deal.  It's nice to be in this place with it.

Learning... how to properly breathe from Carly, who was teaching her frog how in the bath tub.  "Inhale... Outhale... Inhale... Outhale..." she said to him, over and over.  We decided that in our household we shall never say "exhale" again.  Outhale just make so much more sense.

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5.23.2019

Week 20 Around Here {2019}


























{That time Carly "helped" carry the watermelon}














Enjoying... movie night with the kids last weekend, with homemade pizza & cookies. Yum!!!

Loving... my Mother's Day.  Josh went grocery shopping for me (bless him!) and made dinner for us all.  The kids made me cards and Wyatt brought me a coaster he had made in class.  He drew a mug on it with my favorite colors (yellow & blue) and wrote "Best Mom Ever" on it. The sweetheart.
I got to spend most of the day reading, which is my idea of the perfect day, so I was a very happy camper.

Listening... to some marriage advice from Jody Moore on her Better Than Happy podcast.  The podcast was about meeting your own needs in marriage.  At first I thought it was a radical idea, but as I kept listening the idea really resonated with me. It's brilliant!

Cheering... at the twins' game & Wyatt's games along with Carly.  I love watching them play.  You can really see how they have improved as the season has progressed. 

Taking... Wyatt to the orthodontist where he got a spacer placed just like his brothers.  Logan & Jack needed them as part of their first phase of braces, to straighten their teeth, whereas Wyatt needs it to help with his deviated septum (basically the inside of his nose is crooked which makes it hard for him to breathe through his nose).  Because of his deviated septum, he is a mouth breather which makes his sleep less restful and his sleep apnea worse.  We are hopeful that between his tonsillectomy in January and his spacer that we can eliminate his obstructive sleep apnea.

Making... progress in the yard and feeling so thankful that Josh is such a hard worker.  He planted some grass a few weeks ago and it's all grown in and looks so great.  He also did some weed and feed and all our plants are growing in... it just looks so great and makes me so excited!

Telling... Wyatt about his pineal cyst after his referral was approved to see the neurologist in Seattle.  We don't know for sure if his insomnia and headaches are from his cyst, as many are asymptomatic, but there doesn't seem to be any other reasons for them, and we aren't sure where to go from here, so a neurologist is our next logical step.  We are hoping for more answers once we meet with them.
He took the news pretty hard, saying he just doesn't understand why nothing can go right with his body, listing his asthma, tonsils, headaches, sleep loss and now pineal gland as all the things that have gone wrong.
I hugged him and assured him that sometimes life is hard. And that he surely has my sympathy.  But that also, it helps to look for things to be grateful for when life gets hard.  That while he does have asthma, but we can be grateful that with his meds, we have it under control.  That while he did have issues with his tonsils, his tonsillectomy was successful and now they are gone.  Things like that.
After a few days, he seemed to have come around and now seems at peace with it. 

Reading... That Kind of Mother  which was the best book to finish on Mother's Day.  I highly recommend it to every mom.  I absolutely loved the detail and how well the author (a man!) wrote about nursing and mothering.  Then I started The Wet Nurse's Tale, which I also really enjoyed.  If you like birth stories and babies and nursing, you will love it!  And I ended the week listening to Once A Midwife, the third of the Hope River Midwife trilogy.  They were all really entertaining and fun to listen to.  If you enjoyed Call The Midwife (the book or the show) you would like these books by Patricia Harman.

Cleaning... up the mess Carly made when she dropped the entire watermelon on the floor while in the process of carrying it to me so I would cut.it.up for her already. 
I heard the sound of something dropping when I was in the garage emptying the stroller from our walk to the school to get the brothers and when I came inside and saw what had happened I gasped and then saw Carly's face all bawled up and red, ready to start crying.  She BURST into tears, afraid the watermelon was ruined and I had to scoop her up and assure her that it could be salvaged.
I cut it up and gave her a bowl full which she immediately consumed and then she was happy as a clam.

Resting... Thursday while Carly spent the day with Grandma after a crazy morning spent trying to get Jack's spacer put back in after half of it fell out while he was sleeping!  Then after I got the spacer put back in at the orthodontist and got all the kids donuts for breakfast on the way to school, Carly realized she had forgotten her purse full of puppies at the orthodontist's office so we had to swing back by before heading out to Grandma & Papa's land.
Phew! It was quite the morning. But I finally got everyone where they needed to be, and was able to come home and spend some time journaling and reading and blogging and enjoying some much needed "me" time.  (Thanks, Grandma!)

Eating... the first corn on the cob of the season, and it was delish!  Carly was particularly delighted and it was so cute to watch her eat it!

Proud... of Jack for getting a part in the music program at school.  It's a speaking part, and he's so excited!  He's been practicing and memorizing his lines. 

Struggling... to let Jack feel his feelings when he didn't get into AVID (an honor program) like he wanted to.  He was so disappointed, and seeing him feel that way just made me want to make him feel better. Immediately.  So I didn't really make room for his sadness. 
In the future I want to make sure that I let him feel his feelings and not rush to move past hard things.  Disappointment is a fact of life, and helping him through those feelings is an important part of my job. 

Devouring... the Modern Mrs. Darcy Summer Reading Guide and adding even more books to my TBR list on Goodreads.  I've listed the books that caught my eye.  Out of 30, I only chose to add 12 to my list, so I feel pretty good about this... however, my TBR list is going in the wrong direction, up and not down. Haha!



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