Showing posts with label Anchorage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Anchorage. Show all posts

5.30.2015

My Favorite Flight







My favorite flight (of the four we typically take) is the one from Anchorage to Seattle.  We generally travel mid-afternoon, and the light allows us to take advantage of the amazing views.  The mountains in Alaska are truly breathtaking.  

This flight is also the longest flight, which you would think makes it my least favorite, but the opposite is in fact true.  The 3+ hour flight allows us to really settle in, put a movie on for the kids and relax ourselves for a little bit.  It also gets us to the lower 48, which is a wonderful feeling.  Something about being back on the road system provides me mental comfort.

I was surprised that none of the kids slept, but we were all so excited to get to Washington, I don't think I can blame them!

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Leaving on a Jet Plane

I mentioned earlier that we had a lot of luggage.  Like, filled the whole back of the school pick up!  And do you believe that only one piece weighed too much?!?  That's some kind of miracle!

Once we arrived in Bethel we transferred quickly from RAVN (formerly ERA) to Alaska Airlines via the shuttle van, and began the grueling process of checking all our luggage.  Thankfully Leah was there to sit with our kids while they had snack and we checked in at the counter.

The boys are such seasoned travelers, though, that they probably would have been good even on their own.  I was so proud of them all day.

Josh grabbed us each a slice of pizza from Brothers restaurant (a meal I didn't have to make! Hallelujah!) and we chowed down before boarding our flight to Anchorage.

The flight from Bethel to Anchorage is only an hour, so it was really quick.  Leah and I had arranged it so she was sitting with our family, meaning we had an entire row.  Wyatt sat between me and Leah and Josh manned the twins on the other side of the aisle.

Before we knew it, the flight was over and we were headed into the Anchorage airport.  We were getting closer!

In Anchorage we bought the boys new Alaska sweatshirts since they have outgrown their old ones, and in the store, Wyatt asked the worker why her floors had sparkles in them.  I was laughing so hard.  And thus began the joy of watching Wyatt take it all in.

After that we got some nuggets at McDonald's and then prepared to say goodbye to Leah as we were going to go our separate ways.  That is, hands down, the hardest thing about this lifestyle. You go through life together, side by side, carrying each other through the ups & downs and challenges of life in the bush, and then, after a few years, or sometimes even less, you have to say goodbye as life continues and people go their separate ways.  I cried as I hugged Leah, happy for the next chapter in her life to start, but sad (for myself) that we won't be side by side anymore.  

I love you, Leah!  You have been an amazing support, a fun "aunt" and a loving friend.  And for that I'll always be grateful.

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12.31.2014

Under The Same Moon

Tonight, as I celebrate the new year in Anchorage with Julie, I will take comfort in knowing the boys (Josh included) are under the same moon, albeit a few hundred miles away.

I miss them crazy, and leaving yesterday was so hard for me.  (Flying away from them always feels wrong. So so wrong.)  But they are having a blast with daddy, and I am trying to have fun here in town.  So far we've eaten out, gone to the doctor and this afternoon we plan to see a movie! (My favorite!)

2014 was a hard year for me, and I am ready for 2015 to come, bringing with it new things and a whole lot of hope for the future.

Hugs & kisses from me to you, boys!!!
Happy New Year!

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{Photo credit: my husband}

12.22.2014

Homesick, Heartsick

I've been a touch sad the last couple of days. Crying over nothing, at totally random times.  I'm not sure if it's my hormones, the miscarriage (it's been 8 weeks now) or my being homesick.  This year is the worst for my homesickness.  It's never been this bad.  I miss my people.  I miss my places.  I miss being able to distract myself with running errands and spending time with friends and family.  I miss being able to get the kids out of the house-- going to the zoo, or my mom or sister's-- to enrich their days (and mine!).  I miss picking up an easy meal out after a long day, and the ease of driving myself wherever I need to go (namely the doctor).  I also miss shopping.  And vegetables.

I have a trip to Anchorage coming up. To meet my bestie.  I know it will be a super fun, much-needed break, but along with all my sad emotions, I am feeling really guilty about leaving Josh and the boys.  There's so much I am looking forward to doing while we're there-- eating out, shopping, going to the movies, and catching up with Julie.  But I can't help but feel that niggling sense of guilt about being gone so long.  It feels selfish. 

Josh encourages me to look forward to the trip.  Telling me that it will be a wonderful mini-vacation, that he and the boys will be fine without me, and that he's glad I get this little bit of time away.  He assures me I will come back refreshed, and that it may be hard to say goodbye, but it will make coming home ever-so-sweet.

On this trip I would have been finding out the sex of our sweet little baby. So I think that is making the trip a little bittersweet as well.  New Years would have marked the halfway point of this pregnancy and instead of growing a little one inside me, I have no idea what the future holds.

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"I know sometimes you cannot breathe deeply,
and the night sky is no home,
and that you are down to your last two percent, 
but

nothing is infinite
not even loss.

You are made of the sea and the stars, and one day,
you are going to find yourself again."

-Finn Butler

3.16.2014

Health Care in the Bush

I received so many questions about life in the bush that I will be breaking the answers into several posts. For today I decided to start with questions about health care.

I had a lot of questions about health care in the bush. Particularly prenatal care.  When a woman gets pregnant in the village, she generally seeks prenatal care in Bethel, a thirty minute plane ride away, although some may choose to go all the way to Anchorage (an additional hour-long flight from Bethel).

After the initial visit, I believe they go to the doctor every six weeks, then every four weeks, then every two weeks up to 36 weeks.  At 36 weeks it is required by health insurance that expectant mothers fly out (again, to Bethel or Anchorage) and stay at a home while they wait for their babies to be born.  The women have roommates and cannot bring their husbands or children.  Once the baby is born, they are able to fly home, usually within a few days of birth.

There are no home births.  There is no midwife.  The risk is too great.

If you are required to leave the village for medical care (for any reason, not just pregnancy) the insurance reimburses the cost of the flight at 90%.  

Occasionally a medical doctor will come to the village and see patients.  I have never seen a doctor out here personally.  We have been to the clinic multiple times for ear infections, one case of scabies (!!!) and some other illnesses.

The staff is medically trained, but are not doctors or nurses.  They take all our vitals, ask questions and then correspond with doctors in Bethel to decide which treatment is best.  They carry most necessary prescriptions (i.e. Albuterol for inhalers, Amoxicillin for ear infections...).

In addition to minor urgent care, the workers at the clinic are on call 24/7 in case of emergency.  They are the ones who call Medivac (similar to life flight) if necessary and have saved many lives here in the village.  Medivac is emergency medical transportation via airplane or helicopter, depending on weather, and Medivac insurance can be purchased for $100 a year for the entire family.

The clinic also coordinates the dentists, eye doctors and nurses who give well-child check ups and necessary shots for everyone.  We have opted to use our doctors at home in Washington for well child check ups and shots.  So every summer we catch the boys up, seeing the dentist, the eye doctor and their pediatrician.  But if we wanted, they could be seen out here.

When our doctors send in a Rx for us, we use a mail order pharmacy that ships directly to our PO box.  The only inconvenience there is that we have to make sure we give the Rx enough time to get to us.  Luckily we've had no issues.  

I would say the only major change to my health since arriving in Alaska is dry skin and chapped lips.  I use lotion and chapstick like they are going out of style.  I also drink a lot of water, and we use humidifiers in both our room and the boys' room to keep the air moisturized.

The bonus to dry air is that our cups never sweat, so I have no need for cup holders.

Silver lining?
:)

Some people may be surprised that I don't list anxiety as a change to my health since arriving here, but the truth is I have had anxiety for about five years, it had just never gotten quite so severe.  I believe that my wisdom teeth removal recovery (which was slow and agonizing) this summer, coupled with the powerful antibiotics I was on and the lack of medical care once we arrived in Marshall this fall was the perfect storm for my health-related anxiety.  

Then in December I actually became ill with pneumonia, followed by bronchitis, and that took everything out of me.

Thankfully I found a counselor willing to do phone counseling with me, which has been a tremendous help, and finding a doctor (+ corresponding prescription) in Anchorage when I visited in January was also a big help.

The last question I was asked was if there are any villagers who've never left the village.  All the people I know personally have left the village at some point.  At the very least they have been out to see a doctor, but many go to Anchorage for vacation, to shop and to see family they have there.

The natives also do a lot of traveling amongst villages (either by plane, by boat or by snow machine, depending on the weather and the season), because many families are spread out across the many villages.  
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1.22.2014

just me & the boys

Tomorrow Josh leaves for Anchorage.  
So it'll just be me and the boys.
For the next five days.

I have had a touch of anxiety today, fretting about not getting a break, staying sane and keeping my forward progress. But I have more tools now than I did in the past, so I am optimistic that it's going to be a good weekend, even if Daddy isn't here.

Logan is excited for Saturday Social.

Jack is excited because our new movies came and he can't wait to choose which one we should watch on Family Movie Night.  Will it be Honey I Shrunk the Kids or The Land Before Time?

I am glad we have some things to look forward to, and I worked my tail off today preparing for his departure. I did laundry, caught up on my correspondence, submitted my insurance paperwork I had been putting off and made a shopping list for Josh.  My hope is that I can do the bare minimum while he's gone and just enjoy the time with my boys.

Josh made sure I had all the groceries I needed from the co op, and picked up all our packages at the post office.  He leaves in the morning and will have three days of Response to Intervention training as well as two days of travel there and back.

I'm as prepared as can be, and I am better now than I have been in a good long while. So I am anticipating a lovely weekend with these cuties!