9.11.2021

Around Here: Week 35 2021

 {August 22-28th}







{Before & After :: Makeup}




















Can you see how hard Jack is laughing?











"Aunt Shally, look. I can make a heart."










Registering... the twins for their last year in middle school and spending buckets of money at orientation.  ASB cards and Chromebook insurance and PE clothes and yearbook orders.  But it's all done and they are ready to go back after Labor Day.

Attending... an appointment with the oral surgeon for the twins' wisdom teeth.  We scheduled an appointment to have their teeth removed Wednesday September 1st.  They will miss the first two days of school, but with them being on Cross Country (Logan) and Football (Jack), I would rather get the surgery over with at the start of the year than later into the academic and sport season. 

Sending... the twins off to play with their friends and help their friends' mom in her classroom.  It's been a great way to keep them occupied in the afternoons and the bonus is that they are helping their friends' mom. 

Loving... the picture my mom found of my grandpa Jerry helping me put on lipstick when I was little.  Such a tender memory.  

Joining... my weekly Mine To Tell zoom and spending Tuesday afternoon writing.  It brings me such joy every week. 

Walking... at the kids's old elementary school and enjoying the time getting my body moving, finishing the stress cycle and being in the sunshine. I am also enjoying bringing Carly to walk with me.  She brings her stroller and her new stuffed animal to play and it makes me so happy.  Having a daughter is continually a dream come true.

Blogging... a ton in an attempt to get caught up before the kids go back to school.  It's been fun to relive our summer adventures. 

Recieving... a care package from a blog follower and loving all of the surprises inside so much. Her thoughtfulness to reach out and think of me as all my kids go back to school made my heart swell.  Thanks, Eva!

Deep cleaning... the van in preparation to spend a large amount of time in there during the school year.  I put in new smell good trees, vacuumed, windexed and dusted the whole thing.  I will be dropping off and picking up the little kids, and picking up the twins from practice (and maybe even dropping them at school some mornings).  It's going to be a lot of living in my van.  

Playing... at the park each afternoon with the kids when Josh gets home from work.  It feels good to be out in the sunshine, and while I'd rather be swimming, since it's not hot enough, playing at the park is a close second.

Making... a really hard decision this week regarding a friendship.  We have slowly grown more distant, our values less and less aligned, and after the last time we got together I decided that I couldn't continue our friendship.  Our differences had gotten too wide.  It was a hard decision to make, and one I did not make lightly.  But I knew it was right. 

Listening... to a handful of friendship podcasts that were really helpful.  One by Tracy Dalgeish and this one by Cheryl Strayed of Dear Sugars.

Kayaking... with Josh and the kids on his last day of summer.  He got his classroom ready and was able to spend the last day before his students came at home with us.  It was a gorgeous day on the lake and I was so happy to be out in the sunshine. 

Loving... Carly's perspective on life.  We were reading Mercer Mayer's The New Baby and when the mom and dad arrive home with the baby, the mom and dad are dressed up fancy.  She looked at the page and goes, "Do you think they adopted that baby?" I asked, "Why? Do you think they did?" and she said, "Yes. Because they wanted a girl. So they adopted her." 
My sister's third (after two boys) is a little girl they adopted, and I just love that because of that, it's such a natural part of Carly's life and her vision of how families can grow. 

Smiling... so big as Logan & Jack ate dinner with their best friends Easton & Channing on our back patio.  You could hear them laughing through the back door and I could see Jack from where I sat, and his whole face was lit up in laughter. 

Back to school shopping... with the twins and my mom in Wenatchee.  When we arrived we played with my sister's babies so she could shower (I remember those days!)  After that we had lunch out with the cousins and then got down to some serious shopping.  The boys found everything they needed really quickly, and I didn't even have to help! My mom helped them find what they needed while I shopped for a new purse (thanks mom!), earrings, and new fiestaware soup bowls and plates (in purple). She spoils me so.  (Not to mention the kids. So blessed!)
After we were done shopping for the boys, my dad picked them up to go swim at his house, and I got to shop with my mom and sister at Ross.  I fed baby Royal and enjoyed perusing the aisles.  I found an adorable sports bra and some stuffed animal baskets for Carly. 

Grateful... for Carly's friendship with her cousin Liesel.  Throughout quarantine, their sweet friendship, facetiming daily and playing Roblox together, has been a light to Carly and I'm so glad they've had each other. 

Embracing... my inner homemaker a making pickled red onions from a recipe my mom shared with me.  Jack and I cried for hours after cutting them, but they will be delicious on my salads, I'm sure! I also made pickled cucumbers and Jiffy muffins from a box this week. 
I also made snickerdoodles one night for dessert and they were so much easier than I remember them being. Also yummy!

Enjoying... fresh eggs from my mother-in-law and Josh's aunt who are both raising chickens.  The fresh eggs are so much better than store bought.  I know everyone says that, and I did not believe it... but it's true. Gosh, they're amazing!
Also enjoying the Maxwell House International cafe flavors I picked up.  They're less than $3 a box and each one has more than 12 servings.  They're great for cool mornings and as a little caffiene kick when I'm feeling tired. 

Making... even more slime this week with all four of the kids, and being so grateful that Myriam at Mothercould told me that the way to get it out of clothing or material is with white vinegar.  Wyatt got it ALL over one of his new t-shirts and I didn't panic because I believed Myriam knew what she was talking about. And boy did she! I poured a little vinegar on there, rubbed a touch, and voila! It was gone. 

Getting... groceries this week with Logan's help and feeling so grateful that the kids are so capable now that they're older.

Bringing... the wooden trains downstairs for Carly to play with after she noticed them in Wyatt's closet.  I am always surprised how bringing a toy into a new area brings new life to it. Never gets old.

Suffering... so many migraines.  As ever.  I am trying to exercise and sleep and eat right... but it doesn't seem to matter what I do.  They are strong and consistent. Sigh.

Loving... Carly's new hair towel.  My mom bought her a set at Target, and they have been life saving.  After her baths, she wears them while we eat dinner and they a) keep her pajamas dry and b) help dry her hair so that blowdrying doesn't take as long. Highly recommend!

Celebrating... my dad's retirement from Freightliner/Daimler where he worked my entire life.  I am so grateful for the years he put in there (and the years my mom put in at home supporting him) for my siblings and I. 

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Josh sent this to me,
and I kep thinking about it and cracking up.
So accurate.


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My friend Ashley shared this quote and it really felt comforting to me:

"No matter what's happening in the world, 
have your tea, make your list, plan your food perparation,
read to your children, wash the clothes, do something creative for everyone
and be a light for your home."
-Lydia Sherman

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9.10.2021

Around Here: Week 34 2021

 {August 15-21st}































Do you spy all the birdies on the fence?













Cleaning... the house and mopping my floor with Tide for the first time per @gocleanco's encouragement. It is amazing how clean it got my floors with no strong smells and no stickiness. 

Napping... in the afternoon on Sunday and waking up to Josh and the kids in the pool.  It made my heart so happy that he is such a fun dad. 

Making... pizza & cookies for dinner Sunday night since we missed it this Saturday.  The kids were thrilled and everything was so yummy. 

Working out... Monday this week, which felt so great. I worked out a few other days, too, at the kids' old elementary school, while Wyatt & Carly played at the playground and I walked laps.  It feels good to be taking care of my body again. 

Heading... to Wenatchee with the kids for the day Monday.  We swam at my mom's and spent time with my sister and the kids' cousins.  We all loved on the babies and I was super grateful for the gorgeous weather with no smoke to worry about. 

Mowing... the lawn by himself for the first time.  My dad hired Logan to mow his front & back yard, and I felt so proud watching him learn and work on it. 

Shopping... with my mom, my kids and my nephews and being spoiled by my mom.  She bought me a book and and an instant pot after my crockpot died last week while cooking our pulled pork.  It was a hand-me-down given to us by a family friend (and old neighbor) Kerry five years ago when we moved.  We used the heck out of that thing and I was always so grateful for it.
The instant pot my mom got us is also an air fryer, which has the twins PUMPED to try out some new recipes.  I love their enthusiasm.  Whereas I am overwhelmed and unsure, they jump right into new things. They inspire me that way.

Blogging... and trying to catch up from a bit of summer this week. 

Seeing... the sleep doctor to check on my sleep apnea and CPAP.  Things are going quite well, and I am pleased to say that my tiredness has improved quite a bit as of late.  I guess it can take 3-6 months to start feeling the effects of the CPAP machine helping your breathing & your sleep.  I am at the five month mark currently. 

Struggling... to let Wyatt have his feelings.  When he is sad, frustrated or angry it hurts my heart to see his pain. But that's not his responsibility to bear. I need to let him have all his feelings. 

Hosting... mom and Roxanne (and her kiddos) at our house on Wednesday.  We had such a fun day visiting and playing with babies and kids.  The twins were crazy helpful with the babies and I got to help feed and love on Lulu and Royal. 

Grateful... that my mom cleans my microwave every time she's here.  This time she also organized my muffin pans and cookie sheets and let me tell you, that cupboard being orgazanized has felt life changing. haha! I love my kids, and I do sometimes clean the microwave myself... but at some point I have sort of given up on keeping it nice because the next day the kids have gotten it gross again.  

Suffering... a big migraine Wednesday. These migraines are bumming me out!

Signing up... the twins for their sports.  Logan is going to try Cross Country and Jack is going to play Football.  I am so excited and proud of them. 

Sending... the boys off to the land with Josh to do some work and feeling grateful for their able bodies and willing spirits. 

Making... slime and waiting for my "Best Mom in the World" Award to show up in the mail.  Any day now, I'm sure. ha!
For real, though, making slime is the worst... but my kids love it and I got an awesome recipe from @mothercould on Instagram.  Carly declared it was, "The best day of summer!" which made me laugh because even though I hate it, taking slime only took us maybe ten minutes. 

Shopping... for school supplies with all the kiddos and holy expensive! that was a lot of money. But it's done, and they are ALL going back to school, and it will be so lovely and good for them. 

Cooking... pizza for Josh and I on dinner.  I made us chicken, tomato and onion pizza and it was so fantastic.  I was SUPER proud of it! Yum!! 
For a show, we watched a few more episodes of House of Cards.  It's been entertaining, but a bit dark, and I'll be glad when it's over. 

Making... chocolate dipped strawberries with Carly & Wyatt for a special treat to kick off the weekend. I had bought the ingredients initially to make for Josh and I's eighteen year anniversary, but I wasn't feeling well.  So they waited until now.  The kids were thrilled and Josh and I quite enjoyed them during our date night as well. 

Feeling... very domestic lately, cleaning, organizing and cooking and baking.  

Recieving... the hair pretty organizer I ordered from Amazon and having so much fun filling it with all Carly's bows and clips.  I also ordered a headband holder and I can't wait to get that as well.  She's going to be so organized for the new school year!

Taking... Carly to the park as often as possible.  She loves the park more than any of my other kids have ever, and I think it's the sweetest thing.

Enduring... a clingy Carly at bedtime.  I read her two books, sing her two songs, and when the second song ends she hugs my arm and says, "Stay. Stay, mommy." So I climb in bed with her, wrap my arms around her little torso and sing another lullaby.  Oh this sweet babe.  She's growing right up. And I know these snuggles won't last forever.  So I'll cherish them while I can. 

Being... home unexpectedly on Saturday when my mom had to cancel our back to school shopping trip in Wenatchee because she wasn't feeling well.  We all felt awful that she was sick, but promised to take a rain check and go again once she is well. An extra day at home is always my favorite, so I enjoyed the day despite the change of plan. 

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Deep thoughts:

My Mine to Tell course shared this quote, and it resonated with me so very much.  This is why I have to write.  I have to write to process things and to understand them. 

This advice shared by Sarah @thebirdspapaya struck me and I have been listening to it daily. 
"Love is showing up.
Instead of asking myself "How to do I love myself today?"
I ask myself,
"How do I show up for myself today?""

This one made me laugh out loud:
Self help=
"Deliberately making yourself so uncomfortable
it'll feel like you're dying."
Hahaha!

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