3.07.2012

Care Packages {Take Four}

We got a slew of packages last Wednesday, and two more on Monday.
Here it is Wednesday again, and this afternoon we will head to the post office for more...
so I figured I better get this out there!
Thank you!

Chicago Fan
 Your package rocked! We are looking forward to using the spring decorations for some fun projects, and the boys {adored} the tiny boxes of cereal!


Rachel
 Thank you so much for the Lightening McQueen stuff for the boys- that has equaled hours of morning fun during Wyatt's naps. Also, thanks for the Girl Scout cookies! Yum!

Carissa
Thank you for the thoughtful care package. You are definitely a mom, sending me so many essentials!  I especially love the Pantene- awesome!- and the lotion- it sits by the kitchen sink for post-washing moisturizing.
We already ate the ravioli, and those granola bars are my favorite!  The baby food was also welcome- Wyatt loves to eat his "big kid" food.


Grandma Pansy
The boys wearing Josh's hats over their eyes- so silly!
My grandma sent me a box of groceries, basically, and I was pretty excited for Josh to make enchiladas with the canned chicken she sent from Costco. They were delicious!

Julie
 Aunt Julie sent us a St. Patrick's Day themed box.  Complete with Lucky Charms, adorable hand made decorations (photos to follow soon) mint cookies, plates, window decals, candy coins, green jello & more.  We are counting down the days!


Ethan
 Our nephew Ethan sent his own box for the twins.  They really enjoyed opening this one, knowing it was from their favorite guy!

 Can you just feel the anticipation?

 There was all kinds of awesome stuff inside for them.  Balls, candy, pens, Police cars, Froot Loops, glow sticks & more.  Jack gave Josh an infomercial on the pen: "See, dad? I put it on and," letting go of the pen, "it stays on my neck... all by itself!" We were cracking up!

 I was glad Ethan sent Police cars in particular because they have taken to running around the house shooting "bad guys" and for a while they would pretend the bad guys were police. I had to tell them police help us, and can save us when we need them.  So now when they play with the police cars, they always have them catching the bad guys.

 Logan super loved all the chocolate- he is my son- and I think he ate almost all of the football candies that first day!

 Ethan also included these hats, that he made (or maybe his brother Alvin made?) for the boys! Jack would NOT take his off all evening. He loves it!  Ethan, it was so thoughtful of you to send the boys a box. They loved it! They are so lucky to have you for their older cousin. To look up to & think is cool!

Carol & Carl

 Carol & Carl sent what I am pretty sure is the last box of our belongings from Vancouver.  It had hangers and whatnot from around their house that they discovered after we left.

 They filled the rest of the box with groceries & other goodies. Cocoa Puffs, Nutella, Graham crackers, chips, toys, pickles, popcorn, and my magazines (!!!) as well.

 That box was a real hit with the boys as it had some of their toys nestled in among the other items.  Thank you Grandma & Papa!

Kris & Ang
 My cousin & her wife Ang sent us a care package as well.

 Inside was a plethora of helpful items- hot cocoa, mashed potatoes, cuticle salve, and my personal favorite- Mary Kay lip mask & chapstick.  I cannot wait to use it!

 The boys were pretty happy with the ring pops, toys & metal slinkies.

We played with the slinkies on the stairs straightaway. It took me back to my grandma Pansy's basement, getting the slinky set up just right so it would make it all the way down to the bottom. Such fun! Thanks, girls!
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We feel so lucky to have so many people at home in Washington and across the country who care enough to take the time to send a care package.  Every item may not be mentioned here on the blog, but I can guarantee every single item gets used.  

Our pantry is full of fun, thoughtful snacks for our boys because of you.  
Wyatt's cupboard is filled to the brim with Puff's & baby cereal because of you.  
Once a week, I feel like I've just returned from a really fun shopping trip because of you.
We are blessed by you.  All of you.

Those praying & those mailing;
Those sending well wishes & those sending tuna;
Those kept anonymous and those writing;
All of you bless us.
Thank you.

softly

 Your sweet and squishy forehead, pressed firm against my lips,
A lullaby murmured to you as we rock, swaying my hips.

The whisps of your sweet baby hair, tickling my nose;
Your hands, at rest upon my chest, curled up in fists, all closed.

The weight of your existence, slumped heavy in my arms;
The world stopped existing, it's just you and all your charms.

It's time to lay you down now, your eyelashes on your cheeks,
But time stands still and babe I swear, I could hold you like this for weeks.

I lay you softly in your bed, whispering "I love you's",
Your breathing, calm and steady, comforts me as well as you.

Knowing you're my last makes this a sweeter time somehow,
each day a measured number of sweet kisses on your brow.

Not a day shall pass when I don't know how blessed I am by you;
Your love for me, so full, complete, same as I have for you.

And so my boy, my precious babe, as the years do pass us by,
I want you to know I'll miss this time and please don't worry if I cry.
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Poem by yours truly,
Photography by kori sutton

3.06.2012

answers

Are you growing your hair out?
Yes, I am. I think having long hair will be nice here since I never style it. I can easily pull it back into a pony tail, or braid it, and be on my way!

What do you miss from home?
I miss the moisture in the air.  I miss going out to eat.  I miss seeing different things-- tree lined roads, manicured front yards, things of beauty like that.  And the green. I miss the green.
I also miss going to the movies.

What do you drink? Coffee? Tea?
I drink mostly water.  Occasionally (like once or twice a week) I will have a cup of coffee (equal parts creamer & coffee) if I didn't sleep well. And I don't drink tea unless I am sick.  Then it's raspberry zinger or something herbal.
We have a lot of Crystal Light packets, and we make those to have in pitchers in the fridge.  We also drink KoolAid. Orange is my favorite, and wouldn't you know it, they don't carry that flavor at the Anchorage Fred Meyer.
And for milk, which I mostly only have in my cereal, we use powdered.  I've been surprised at how well we all transitioned from regular to powdered.

What sweets do you miss?
I miss fancy pieces of pie (from Shari's) or cake (from Red Lobster) as well as donuts. A good old fashioned maple bar would be fabulous!

How long does it take a flat rate box to reach you?
If you ship it from the post office near the Portland Airport, it can reach us in as little as five business days.  Otherwise it tends to take about seven to ten business days.  And non-priority (parcel post) boxes take even longer. Sometimes over three weeks, especially if they are large.

My own random, two cents:
I am growing nervous for my trip home.  Josh keeps telling me that I will not believe what a stimulation overload it will be. And Mary came over the other night and she said I will want to buy three grocery carts full of groceries just because I can!  I'm curious what the adjustment will be like, and how I will respond.  I guess soon enough we will see!

This Mom's Life

I stole these questions from this months' issue of Good Housekeeping.  
Enjoy!
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What are three words that describe you as a mom?
empathetic
consistent
capable

Your favorite family rituals?
Bedtime.  
Baths, lotion, jammies, stories, songs, snuggles & lights out.

What's on your nightstand?
My journal
Women, Food & God by Geneen Roth
The True & Outstanding Adventures of the Hunt Sisters by Elisabeth Robinson
My prayer journal
Two good pens
A photograph of Josh on our honeymoon
A Kleenex box
& a basket with lotion, Vanilla lipsmackers chapstick, hair bands and the like inside it.

Is there a parenting rule you never break?
Manners. The boys have to use their manners.

And one you always break?
No means no.  
Sometimes, if they ask nicely, it can mean yes.

Is there a beauty product you can't live without?
Lubriderm.  I use it everyday on my entire body. I swear by it.

What five things are always in your fridge?
Ketchup, {powdered} milk, water bottles for everyone in the family, cheese & pickles.


Your most memorable family vacation?
Oregon's Wildlife Safari Summer 2011.  Wyatt was six weeks old.  The twins loved feeding the giraffes and also swimming in the pool at the hotel.

What's been your hardest parenting moment so far?
The day I came home from the hospital after having Wyatt and the twins completely melted down/lost it when they saw me.  They cried, curled up in my lap, in the fetal position, for twenty-five minutes straight.  I had missed them so much.  It was the first time I felt torn between all three children each needing a piece of me.

Do you have a favorite book in your house right now?
Thomas the Tank Engine.  It's a HUGE book that has multiple stories. I hate reading it let Josh read it to them because they love it. ;)

Your biggest guilty pleasure?
Watching a movie during nap time.  I sit in Josh's easy chair, journal in my lap, pen in my hand, and just unplug my brain for a while.  It feels so good.
That, and baths.  I love a good bath.

What's been the most surprising thing about parenthood?
That it's true what they say, your love multiplies.  I didn't know how I would possibly love Wyatt as much as I loved Logan & Jack.  But I do.  And the love is distinct for each of them- I love all of the boys in a way that is unique from the love I feel for their brothers.

3.05.2012

sucked in

Try as I might to maintain some sort of schedule or regularity in my blogging, or other hobbies, I have been sucked in.  Sucked into my life as a stay-at-home-mom.  Completely sucked in.  Each day is a complete blur of boring but necessary chores & repeat routines.

Wake up
Switch laundry
Feed children
Dress children
Wash dishes

Switch laundry
Clean playroom
Feed children
Wash children
Nap time
Wash dishes
Switch laundry

Clean playroom
Feed children
Bathe children
Read to children
Bedtime
Wash dishes
Switch laundry

Wake up & do it all over again

So when I am absent on the blog, it is simply because the daily stuff in my ordinary life has little to nothing exciting to write about.  That, and I am so busy washing dishes & switching laundry, that by the time I'm done, I just want to go lay down a while.

I try to spice things up once in a while.  Like, say, making the Flubber my sister-in-law sent for the boys.  Or taking them outside to play in the snow.  And while these activities do create something new for me to blog about, they also require even more work than the original schedule, and therefore even less time to blog about them.

I promise hope to get better.  Maybe.  Meanwhile, I am going to go lay down.
Goodnight.

3.02.2012

Question & Answer

I copied this idea from Helen over at Three Times The Giggles.  Every so often she will post a Question & Answer blog, and I loved reading it so much, I decided to do one myself.  If there are any other questions you have (about our family, our experience up here, or really anything at all) just leave your question in the comments and I will be sure to answer it ASAP!

Here goes:

Question #1: How do you shop? 
Do you have to fly to the stores or just call them for the bush orders?
We order {almost} everything online.  We use Amazon & Target (both offer free shipping) the most, but have also used Old Navy (for clothes, obviously) and Fred Meyer (for groceries).  

We were not impressed with Fred Meyers' packing efforts, as a lot of things were busted open, dented or ruined, but this is the risk you run.  I used them because you can e-mail your grocery list, which I really liked for its convenience.  Our next large grocery order we plan on using Walmart in Fairbanks where you call in your bush order.  Shipping on these takes anywhere from two to four weeks.

A flight out of here, just to Bethel, costs $662 right now, so we don't fly out to get groceries. That said, when we happen to be out, say in Anchorage, we do shop while we're there. Josh did a HUGE trip in August when he was there for training- he shopped & had Fred Meyer ship it- and we did one at Walmart when all five of us were in Anchorage in January.  We bush ordered some of it- had them pack & ship our carts- and brought some with us in a tote & cooler.

When Josh's parents come at the end of the month they offered to grocery shop for us while in Anchorage & bring it with them.  So they will pick up things for us, like lasagna, lunch meat, ham, chicken nuggets, etc. that we can't ship out here and don't have at the store.

And finally, the things we can't order online or have people ship us, we buy at the store.  We buy eggs, cheese & butter whenever they have it (which is not always) and recently got sour cream & yogurt-- very exciting!  But the cost is crazy.  Tillamook yogurt, single serving? $1.50  One pound of cheese? $14.00

Question #2: How far away is the school?
I am terrible with distances... I will refer you to this post by my husband, which has a picture. In the third picture down there is the school & underneath it, at the bottom of the photograph is the teacher housing. We are in the set nearest the bottom of the page- you can barely see our roof.  You can also see the school & teacher housing in the last picture, as well as the tundra my house faces.

What's insane to me, looking back, is that I walked halfway across that river with my three little kids. I am not getting Mother of the Year this year... Maybe next year?

Steve, Brian, Mary, Cody, Flora, John, Hope, Nichole & Susan
Question #3: Have you met any friends/neighbors?
I have met some people, yes. Not as many as I would like, but the weather is prohibitive.  I have met all the teachers, and quite a few Natives.  I have met Natives both at the store, and at the Eskimo dance we went to a few weeks ago.

Kids table: Julia, Jack, Logan, Kayle, Kevin, Evan, Megan & Jenna
Josh is pretty close with Mary & Brian (two fellow teachers) so they come by every once in a while and I love that.  
Joe & Krista are another couple here, who have four kids (4yo, 2yo and 8 mo. old twins) and when we can, we have hung out or visited, but since they are both teachers, and have four kids, time is a hot commodity!
Susan & Wyatt
 Everyone that I have met has been so warm & welcoming.  "You like Alaska?" they ask. Even Josh's students asked me that.  I am hopeful that as the weather warms up, and I spend more time outside, walking to the store or post office & letting the kids play at the school, I will make more friends.

Flora & Kayle at the Eskimo Dance
In terms of neighbors, our only neighbors are fellow teachers.  On one side of us is Flora & her husband and son, and on the other is Nichole, a sweetheart who teaches kindergarten here.  They are all great, and tolerate our obnoxiously loud children with grace & understanding.

 Question #4: How can I pray for you?
If you could only pray for one thing for me, it would be patience.  Being home with the kids is challenging. Perhaps more so than I thought it would be.  It's hard to be stuck in the house, and it's hard to keep the twins entertained while also caring for the baby.  And when the baby is napping, it's even worse cause I have to keep the twins entertained and quiet! 
I also pray for our future.  Josh has been considering what kind of masters degree he wants to get, and has applied for acceptance to University of Alaska.  These are big decisions.  So I pray we are making the right ones.
And last, our safety.  It is easy, in my cozy home with the boys, to forget where I am.  The land is very unforgiving. When the power goes out, it does not take long for the temperature in the house to reach 60 degrees.  We have been, at times, without power, without heat and without hot water.  It really forces you to get back to basics.  I worry not only about our safety in terms of the weather, but also illness. We have been so blessed to be healthy the majority of our time here, and I pray for that to continue.  A visit to the doctor could be very time consuming, not to mention costly.  With no one else to watch the kids, only one of us could travel with whoever was sick, and that would mean Josh would miss work... basically it could be a real nightmare. One I am hoping to avoid. I pray we make it to May 18th!

 Question #5: Who takes over for Josh is he's sick and can't go to work?
If the kids, or Josh himself, were to get sick, and he couldn't go to work, he would put in a call to the principal, make lesson plans, and a substitute (someone from the village) would come in his place.  The substitutes are not trained teachers, and do not carry certificates.  Occasionally a teachers' staff assistant will fill in as the sub, if need be.  But Josh's staff assistant quit, so he would need the principal to call someone from the list.

Question #6: Is there a church in town?
There are actually three churches in town.  
  • Russian Orthodox
  • Catholic
  • Evangelical
Post-nap Jack
Question #7: Do you eat frozen veggies? 
Or do you have a store when you can get some fresh fruit and veg?
We do not have any frozen veggies.  Shipping anything that needs to remain frozen or cold is exorbitantly expensive, so we do canned fruits & veggies.
There are some fresh fruit & veggies at the store: I have seen potatoes, lettuce, apples, grapes, carrots & bananas.  Some things, as you can imagine, look better than others by the time they arrive.  I have only bought carrots myself because the cost is so high that it's hard to spend it on a semi-decent piece of food.
I did ask Josh to look this afternoon for some fresh fruit for me.  I would kill for an orange!
We have been blessed with care packages containing apples, lemons, onions, & potatoes, and for that (and all grocery items sent to us) we are eternally grateful!  Logan was so excited he told me he was going to eat the lemon!

Question #8: Do you ever get cabin fever because you have to stay inside all day?
I have not experienced cabin fever until this week.  Normally we go with Josh to the post office & store on Wednesday; occasionally visit his class at school on Fridays; and play outside once or twice in the afternoons, weather permitting.  But we have been in the -20's the last ten days or so, and haven't left the house.  It's starting to make me crazy!
I do a lot of journaling, to keep my mind organized, and let the kids get pretty rambunctious- sliding down the stairs, racing with their stools, playing soccer in the living room- anything to get the wiggles out.
Tomorrow they are having basketball games at the school, and I told Josh I don't care what the weather is, it's a short walk to the school, and we are all going!  He has to go because he's the school photographer.  He looked happy that I wanted to go, too.  So that should help my cabin fever subside until we get better weather.

Question #9: Is there a gym anywhere in town where you could run on a treadmill or use an exercise bike (or do you have these at home)?
The only "gym" is the gym at the school.  I have heard rumors of a broken down treadmill in the shop, but it's out of commission, so no. No treadmill, no exercise bike.
I was invited to play basketball on Wednesday evenings with the ladies in town, but with the baby nursing, and it starting near bedtime, I just don't see how it would work. (Not to mention the fact that I am 5'4 and about twenty five pounds overweight...) 
I have a lot of Tae Bo workout videos I could use, as well as a set of weights. We also have a Wii and an X-Box that have workout games if I wanted.  And the boys just got jump ropes that I have been using. Man, that can get my heart pumping like crazy!
But currently I have been using my Mama Wants Her Body Back DVD, which has full body workouts, as well as ab & booty workouts.  So in terms of exercise, I am pretty well set. 

But I will tell you that the best workout, is trying to walk in the snow while wearing the baby!  I come home all sweaty under my hundred layers from struggling to stay upright in the drifts!

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Thank you so much for playing along. 
Keep the questions coming.
I would love to share more insight about our life with you!